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Valentine’s Day Palava: The things we do for love!

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I went happily to Queens Cinema Market with my just withdrawn alawee to get my boyfriend two gifts: one for his birthday and the other, for Valentine’s Day. ‘Sister, Fine Sister, Ajoke to rewa….’   They beckoned at me, to come and check out their men’s store. Finally I agreed to enter one of the seemingly cool stores to get suitable gifts for her man. ‘How much is this perf?’   I pointed at a well-packaged perfume with something that looked like a nice label. ‘Ha, Sister, you sef know good thing when you see am. That perf na original o.’ ‘How much jare? U people too   get mouth, just talk price make I commot’, I retorted. ‘The thing be say that perf wey you point at na N12,500 o ’, they finally summoned up courage to tell me the price.   I thought to myself, that these guys must be big jokers to have thought that I didn’t have more than enough to buy the perfume but I didn’t make my thoughts obvious. I went on to barg...

Preps for Valentine's Day? Tips....

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Hi guys (and ladies too... lol) I promised to drop simple tips to make this valentine special. All believers of Valentine's day, come along as we share simple tips to make valentine's day special for that one person that we really love. Mind you, these are things I thought about on my own. They may not be as popular as you would think. You can also drop tips that you think people could pick up from this blog and make use of... Enjoy the read.... #1 Don't get all worked up about Valentine's day I've seen people get so worked up about the 14th of February, year in, year out. It's a day to show some good loving to your relationship partners; and not a day to starve yourself of your comfort to please someone. As a matter of fact, I agree with some unblievers of the Vals day; that we shouldn't idolize one day to show love to our partners. If we're going to go by that theory, then there's no reason why anyone should pick a fight with his/her part...

Preps for Valentine's day?

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Hello people.... I should start this post by welcoming everyone to this special month of love. It's that time of the year where we can literally feel love in the air, because of the 14th of February (Valentine's day) that will be celebrated everywhere. I decided to share a few tips for this month. But before I begin with the tips, I wanna know what your take on celebrating valentine's day is. I've heard so many divergent views on celebrating valentine's day. I have a couple of friends that tell me how they don't believe in 'idolizing' a day to show their relationship partners and spouses love. What do you think, people? " Should Valentine's day be celebrated? Should it just be a normal day, like the rest of the other days? Does it make any sense to spend so much on one day, or to pick a fight with our partners days before the D-day just to avoid the spendings?.... lol." I want to hear your views. I also want you guys to drop...

HEARTBREAK WARFARE (II)

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Handling and getting over a break-up I started this series by giving a little insight into the things that could cause a break up and possible warning signs one should look out before your relationship hits the wall. I also gave some pieces of advice on how to make it work if you want it to and how to carefully go about it if not. Today, I'll be talking about how to handle and get over a break up . If you've done all you can as a lady to keep your man; you've prayed, changed all the things he complains about, tried to make it work & as a guy, you've put in your very best in making it work but in the end, you still get your heart broken with the news of a break up; then you have to know how to pick up the broken pieces and move on without doing so much damage to yourself and the people around you. Break ups can be so rough and sometimes, they can be amicable; but no matter what, no one really wants to go through them. The loss of a relationship can bring on i...

Heartbreak Warfare (I)

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"WARNING: I’M NO LONGER IN LOVE!"

When the Chips are down, Do We Really Love?

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Hello people. I want to believe we've all been having a nice day?   As we all know, Valentine's Day is around the corner. I'd be posting a lot of things on the popular subject of LOVE from now till the 14th of February. And i'm starting today by posing this big question to you: Do you really Love? If we carefully consider the issue of love and ask ourselves this question, we'll find out that most of the time, we love God and people for reasons; we just love what is in God's hands - the protection, provision, safety, care that He showers us with all the time; and for people, we love them because of the things that they can offer or for the things we can get from them. We may not easily agree but that's the truth. Take for example, you love me because i'll often have a kind word to make your day, a smile to cheer you up; for those that know me, the jokes i tell, etc; you love your partner because he/she is educated, soft-spoken, vast, intelligent, pret...